SELF RESPECT OR JOB 
 

“ baap bada na bhaiya, sabse bada rupiya” 
 

I  also used to believe in these words, but you know there are times, when we can not say like this , there are many more things, which are clearly uncompromisable . 
 
 

As suggested by my friends, and my fellow bloggers, and as mentioned in my previous blog,  I didn’t pay attention to my boss’s various unjustified demands,  whenever asked for coffee outside, or lunch outside (obviously, hiding from all the office like bloody thieves), i simply made one or another excuse to get out of this situation, like no, today I have to got to library ,

No, sir, sorry but you should have told me before as I have plan today with my mom for shopping. 

O my god, every Saturday, I had to come with a new excuse. Saturday, not because of weekend, but because , we normally have our almost half day, and hence he can get his enjoyment without any suffering for his work( See, His cleverness). Suddenly, he stopped all this, I heaved a big sigh of  relief and almost 2 weeks were very good.  

Ya, all that continued which I have mentioned in my previous  blog, like  getting rebuked on every single smallest mistake, making me sit fro almost 1 hour even after my office timing is over, just to say good bye for the day, o my god , there were many. 

Anyways, I already have started giving interviews, so there were normally 2 to 2.5 leave in the month of January. But , as I have already told you, getting these HR job is really time consuming. 
 

I thought that I should concentrate on my present job now, instead of finding a new job. I came to the office with this noble thought but I received a letter from my Accounts head saying

“ you mobile reimbursement  of Rs. 500/-*has been taken back from you as you don’t receive calls from the office, whenever out of the office”. I have already expected this coming as he has once called me at 9.30 pm from his cell, which I didn’t pick up. I got a good shouting from his side next day. Same happened one day again I was on my way to interview and I received this call from office, I knew he is calling me since he has messaged me one senti message, and I knew he is going to call me and next day, I received this letter.  

Maybe he was expecting that I will go and talk to him regarding this, but he did not know that now I have developed a great deal of self respect and I am not ready to compromise on this. I simply gave my reply to head accounts saying I was in hospital to take care of my grandma (this was the alibi, I have used to take leave for that day ;)) 

I didn’t even hint him anything regarding this. I have thought that I won’t mind this at all. As I  was having this condition,  that I will msg. him and call him, which I didn’t want and I was not doing obviously, that’s what hit him I think.  I discussed this matter in my home and they also echoed my view point.  

On the same way, I got biggest shock of my life, when I happen to sit on the computer of his PA, who is also my sister in law. And I saw a mail there which was actually a copy, original of whose was with MD only. It was from a consultant, who sends us other candidates; she has sent her resumes for the post of AM- HR, which is handled by me only. I can’t describe my feeling at that time, like somebody who has just been stabbed in the heart, I felt so cheated, so insulted (although, I should not). Tears rolled down my eyes and called my best friend immediately to discuss this matter.  

Although I myself was very much disturbed and tense over this matter but leaving this job without